Ok, so if your dad's mom raised you, where was your dad? Why did he abandon you? Why did he not bring you into his "new" family? YTA if you share. They did bubcus for you, you for the same for them. That's your house. Your "mom" gave it to you and enough money to sort you out. You get anything from your dad?? Yeah, I think not. Block them. Sell the house if you want. Start fresh. Change your number.
Jenna inherited her grandmother’s house and savings. Now, she’s facing pressure from her father and stepsiblings, who are demanding a share. To make things even more complicated, her dad reveals a hidden truth about her mother that turns everything Jenna thought she knew upside down.
If grandma wanted anyone else to have anything she would have included them in her will. Your dad had time to come to you when grandma was alive why wait until she's gone to give you some cockamamie story. It never fails, where money and property is involved trouble is right around. Keep your property and funds to yourself, you'll need it when you start your own legacy. To hell with what others say or think.
Hello, Bright Side,
My name is Jenna, and I am 19 years old. My mom left when I was born. My dad wasn’t in the picture either. He and my mom split up before I was born, and he never made too much effort to be a part of my life. He has another family now, and we don’t meet often.
I lived with my grandma, my father’s mom. She always told me that my mom didn’t want me and that she chose to leave me behind.
Grandma was always the only family I had. When she died, she left me her house and all her savings. Soon, my phone flooded with angry messages from my stepsiblings, demanding I split it all. I wasn’t going to listen to them until my dad came, and instead of asking for money, he confessed the real reason my mom left. It wasn’t because she didn’t want me. According to him, Grandma had interfered. She had convinced her that she wouldn’t be able to raise me alone, without a father. She told her that her whole life would be ruined and that there would be no future for her with a baby on her hands. She pressured her into stepping away so she could work and build her life, aka “for her own good.”
No NTA honour your Grandmother. She left everything to you for a reason let it be her legacy. The rest of the family will not help you if it was reversed.
Now my dad and his family are saying that grandma was manipulative and that I should “make things right” by sharing everything she left me.
I don’t know what to do. This whole situation hurts a lot. For years, I thought grandma was the kindest person and the only one who was always there for me. Turns out, I have been lied to my entire life.
I don’t even know who I can trust. If my mom didn’t want to leave me, why wouldn’t she even try to contact me my whole life? Why did my father decide to share this information now? And why should I give up on my inheritance because of it? What if he made it up just to show up as a caring person when in reality he doesn’t give a dam* about me? Please help because I feel so, so trapped under all this.
It is your money if you give them a share you still have to pay the tax on all of you could end up with nothing. Grandma wanted you to have it not everyone else.
Hi, Jenna,
We are really sorry you’re going through this difficult situation. It’s understandable that you feel trapped and confused, especially with the new information about your mother and grandmother.
Here are some thoughts to help you navigate this:
His timing—now, after your grandmother’s death—could suggest he has a specific goal, especially since he didn’t mention this before. Consider reaching out to someone else who was close to your mom or grandma, like a family friend, to get a clearer picture of the past. If that’s not possible, think about what your mom’s actions and the available facts really tell you.
Instead of focusing on the story he told you, observe his actions now—whether they align with his words. Does he show genuine concern for you, or does it feel like he’s manipulating the situation for his benefit? To be honest, the pressure to “make things right” seems more like an emotional manipulation than a fair request.
The inheritance was given to you by your grandmother, who chose to leave it to you, no matter the reasons. Whether your mother left you because she wanted it or because she was manipulated into it doesn’t change the fact that your grandmother’s wishes were to pass on her estate to you. The other family members, like your stepsiblings, may feel entitled, but it’s important to remember that inheritance isn’t about fairness in the traditional sense; it’s about the choices the deceased made. You have every right to keep what she left for you without feeling pressured to divide it based on the idea that your grandmother was manipulative.
This situation is complicated, but you have every right to protect what was left to you. Especially if you have no one else you can rely on. Be cautious about who you trust and take the time to understand what feels right for you, not anyone else.
Take care,
Bright Side
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Your gran lft it all to you ,he only wants to get money now greedy dad
Jenna, you always believed your was kind because she was. She loved you and wanted you to have the house and money. Your father is only telling you this because he knows you're grieving and he can manipulate you easier at your lowest point. Keep what she left you, including your memories and distance yourself from those who only want to take from you and hurt you.
If grandma wanted him, her son, to have anything she would have left him in the will. But it's obvious that he wasn't there for you either that's why she left it all to you. Don't fall for his crap, bump all them and live your best life as your grandma intended for you.
Check all documents to make sure there's no one else who may be entitled to any part of the inheritance or house. Seek legal counsel to protect yourself. Change your phone number or block it. Try not to be confused and enjoy your life.
I don't know if the young lady will see this, but...
Even if what your father claims is true, HE left you & your mother prior to you being born. Then, when your mother left, HE chose to stay out of your life, while creating a new family without you. HE left it to your grandmother to raise you & is only contacting you now because he wants part of your inheritance. Don't believe a word out of his mouth & keep your inheritance. Your grandmother raised you, not him. You owe him nothing. If your mother was manipulated by your grandmother, as HE claims, it doesn't matter, because HE still chose to stay out of your life.
