Tell your brother to stuff it. Retire and go no contact with that manipulative drama queen.
I Refuse to Postpone My Retirement Just Because My Brother Wants a Safety Net

Hello Bright Side,
I spent 35 years running our family bakery. It was my whole life, but at 58 I was finally ready to sell it and retire. My brother Michael, who’s a single dad, didn’t take the news well.
He begged me not to sell, saying, “I need that money for my boys!” I told him no. It’s an outrageous request, considering he only helped me with the work during the early years until he lost interest. It may be a family business, but I’m the one who put my blood and sweat into it.
The next day, I got a call from my nephew, sobbing, “Come quick! Dad is really upset right now. We don’t know what to do. Please, auntie.”
My heart sank. I know my brother, and he loves to create drama when he doesn’t get his way. But hearing his son so scared made me furious. That’s when it hit me.
If Michael thinks he can use his kids against me, he’s wrong. He’ll have to deal with the fact that I’m not playing his game. I never thought retirement would start like this, but I don’t want to let two kids suffer just because their father wants the money he doesn’t deserve.
Now I’m stuck with a decision I never thought I’d face. Do I sell the place and share the money with Michael, even if he has done nothing to earn it? Or just move on with my initial plan and risk the kids’ future? I know for a fact that he won’t use the money for his boys, but I still wonder.
So what should I do?
Sincerely,
Samantha


I would give any money you decide on into trust accounts for the boys that he cannot access. After all, that is what he wanted. Happy retirement.
Thank you, Samantha, for sharing and trusting us with your story. We believe your situation will resonate with others and help them feel seen as well. We’ve gathered some tips for you to easily get though this without getting hurt.
Involve a neutral professional.
You don’t have to fight this battle alone. A social worker or even a family lawyer can give you guidance on what steps to take if your brother’s threats continue. They’ll know what resources are available and how to make sure the kids are safe without creating unnecessary drama. Sometimes just having a professional check in can make a huge difference.
Explore support options for the kids.
You don’t need to hand your brother money to help. Look into after-school programs, sports clubs, or local community centers that offer support for kids. These can give the boys a sense of stability, routine, and connection with positive role models. It shows them that there are safe spaces beyond their father’s moods or threats.
Protect your own well-being too.
It’s easy to put yourself last when kids you love are involved, but remember that you’re just entering retirement after decades of hard work. Think carefully about what kind of support you can realistically give without draining yourself, whether that’s occasional childcare, helping with meals, or covering small things like school supplies. By setting realistic limits, you’ll stay healthy and avoid resentment, which means you can continue to be a steady figure in their lives.
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Comments
is he joking???!!!!!! i'd bet everything that he will NOT use the money fro his kids

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