Well, you're the one who left her behind, not your husband. Yes, what he did wasn't right but, you were worse. You chose Spain instead of her. You could have taken her somewhere instead of deciding to go to Spain.
My Husband Paid for His Son’s GF’s Trip Instead of My Daughter’s
Blended families sometimes encounter difficulties in treating all children equally. This was the case for Madison's family when her husband requested that her daughter skip a family trip, so his son's girlfriend could go instead. Matters worsened upon their return, prompting Madison to seek our advice.
This is Madison’s letter:


Thank you for sharing your story, Madison. We’ve prepared four tips that might help you.
Seek family counseling.


Why didn't YOU stay home with her??? I don't blame her for leaving, I blame you for not staying. You don't deserve a daughter.
Given the emotional complexity and the deep wounds caused by this situation, seeking professional family counseling can be helpful. A neutral third party can help facilitate open and honest communication between you, your daughter, and your husband.
This can create a safe space for everyone to express their feelings and work towards understanding each other's perspectives. It might also help address underlying issues in your relationship with your husband and stepchildren, ensuring such situations are handled better in the future.
Apologize and rebuild trust with your daughter.
A heartfelt apology to your daughter for not standing up for her is crucial. Acknowledge her feelings and validate her pain. Explain the situation from your perspective, but don't make excuses. Show her that you understand why she feels betrayed, and emphasize your commitment to making amends.
Spend quality time with her, and involve her in decisions that affect her, demonstrating that her opinions and feelings are valued. This effort can help rebuild the trust that was lost.
Set clear boundaries and expectations with your husband.
Have a serious discussion with your husband about the impact of his decisions and words on your family dynamics. Establish clear boundaries and expectations for how decisions, especially those involving children from both sides, should be made in the future.
Emphasize the importance of treating all children fairly and respectfully. This can prevent future conflicts and ensure that both your daughter and stepson feel valued and included.
Encourage your daughter to express herself.
Encourage your daughter to openly express her feelings, whether through conversations, journaling, or art. This can help her process her emotions and feel heard. Suggest that she write a letter to you and her stepdad, detailing her feelings and experiences. This can provide insight into her perspective and help you understand the depth of her hurt.
Additionally, showing her that you are willing to listen and understand can foster a stronger emotional bond and aid in healing the relationship.
Carla, a stepmom, has recently been asked to care for her three stepchildren alone all day. Feeling distressed and fed up, she approached her husband's ex-wife for compensation for her babysitting. What happened next was completely unexpected. Here is her story.
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