Say : "YOU ARE NOT EVEN A GUEST IN HERE, GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE !!" too much entitled even if she stay in guest room. Bet she will nag you more with her "living in guestroom style"
I Refused to Sacrifice My Retirement for My Daughter’s Unplanned Baby

We received a letter from Linda.
Hey Bright Side,
I saved for years to finally enjoy retirement. But my daughter, who is 20 now, had an unplanned baby and needed help. I adore my grandson, and of course, I stepped in. At first, it was small things (diapers here and there, babysitting when she needed rest), but it kept growing. She leaned on me more and more, especially financially.
When I finally told her I couldn’t keep giving money, she smirked and said, “You’ll regret this.” I brushed it off, but the next day I came home and froze. Her bags and belongings were spread out all over my guest room. When I asked what was going on, she just said, “If I can’t get the money, I’ll save some by staying here.”
I feel blindsided. I’ve spent my whole life working hard, and I just wanted to enjoy a little peace in my retirement. I love my daughter and grandson, but I can’t keep being taken advantage of. Am I wrong for wanting my space back?
— Linda
Here’s what we think.
Linda, thank you for sending us such an honest and emotional letter. First, please know that setting boundaries doesn’t mean you love your family any less; it simply means you’re protecting your own well-being. You’ve spent decades working toward retirement, and you have every right to enjoy it without feeling pressured or manipulated.
That said, conversations like this are tough. It may help to sit down with your daughter and calmly explain what support you can realistically offer (whether that’s occasional babysitting, small essentials, or simply emotional support) and where the line has to be drawn. If she insists on staying without your consent, you may need to set firm house rules or even seek outside guidance. Remember: being a loving parent and grandparent also means modeling self-respect and healthy boundaries.
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