How Demi Moore Refused to Continue Her Promising Career to Raise Her 3 Kids as a Single Mother
Parenting can significantly change your life, forcing you to make sacrifices for your children and the entire family’s sake. Many of our favorite Hollywood stars have started families while pursuing their careers, while others have felt compelled to retire and devote their lives completely to their kids. This can be seen with actress Demi Moore, who, at the height of her success, decided to put her career on hold in order to raise her 3 daughters.
She was at the top of her career.
Demi Moore was a huge star in the 1980s and 1990s, dominating the big screen with her striking beauty and powerful acting chops. Despite having a diverse acting career, Moore was nominated for a Golden Globe for her significant role in Ghost (1990).
She went on to have more box-office success, becoming Hollywood’s highest-paid actress when she starred in Striptease in 1996. Moore’s films’ critical acclaim began to wane, and she took a temporary break from Hollywood to devote more time to her family. Nevertheless, over the years, she even sought out a modeling career, appearing on the covers of the most prominent magazines.
But later on, the family became her priority.
She married in 1987 to actor Bruce Willis, with whom she welcomed 3 daughters: Rumer, Scout, and Tallulah. However, their marriage did not endure as long as they had hoped, and they divorced in 1998.
Willis claimed shortly after their breakup, “We have 3 children whom we will continue to raise together, and we’re probably as close now as we ever were. We realize we have a lifelong commitment to our kids. Our friendship continues.”
One of the reasons for their breakup was Willis’s pressure on Moore to give up her acting career. Aside from not knowing whether he wanted to be in a married relationship, he believed that work would keep her too far away from their family.
Willis, leaning toward tradition, wanted Moore to be a stay-at-home mom, but the actress had no issue working while caring for her kids. She felt that Willis had not been supportive when she had been offered a fantastic role in a significant film. “This will never work if you’re off shooting a film,” she recalls him saying.
Moore continued, “What he meant was that our life wouldn’t work if I was engrossed in something outside of our family. I felt way too much anxiety to have a real conversation with Bruce about our assumptions regarding work, gender roles, and parenting.”
While Demi Moore and Bruce Willis’s marriage and subsequent divorce could have broken their family, both parties made it a point to prioritize their children and keep them out of the spotlight in Hollywood.
The couple’s daughters have also expressed appreciation and recognition of their parents for how they handled the divorce and handled their custody of them. One of their daughters, Rumer Willis, said, “They always made such an effort to still have our family be as one unit, as opposed to 2 separate things.”
Moore paused her career and became a full-time mom.
Along with her marital issues, Moore had to deal with her mother’s death, which was a trying moment in her life. Despite their turbulent history and complicated relationship, the Ghost star wanted to remain with her mother during her sickness. Therefore, Moore moved her entire family to a motel in New Mexico to look after her.
Moore stated of her daughters, “Having to camp out at a local hotel was really hard on them.” However, she spent the final 3 months of her mother’s life by her side. Following these significant life events, Moore decided to put her family’s needs ahead of everything else.
She took on the full-time responsibility of parenting her children at her Idaho home because she wanted to spend as much time with them as possible. After all, a mother’s love goes so far as to compel us to put our children before ourselves. Moore loves her kids dearly, and she wrote, “Being a mother felt totally natural. It’s one of the few things I can confidently say I was innately good at.”
However, as time has gone on, their children have come to understand the enormous sacrifice Moore made for them and are aware that few others would make the same choice. Her eldest child claims, “I didn’t realize until I got older. She was at the peak of her career, and she left to take care of us, and that’s the reason me and my sisters are as grounded as we are.”
Through good and bad, they have come together as one unbroken family.
These days, Moore feels no regret over her choices, as they led her to be the woman and mother she is today. Even though she continued her acting and modeling career over the years with less success than in the past, she will always be remembered as a Hollywood symbol of the 1990s.
“I’m grateful for the grounding that being away from [Hollywood] gave them. As to being back, I’m still learning too. Can I say that I’ll look back and everything was the right choice? I’m sure I won’t. But that’s part of understanding that none of us are perfect, and I’ve never been exactly in the place that I am right now.”
Moore and Willis show that divorce does not necessarily result in the dissolution of families. They are now a single, more extended family that supports one another during difficult times. Willis’s family’s overwhelming devotion is definitely a source of immense comfort during this tough period as he fights his disease and prepares to retire from the acting scene.
Moore dedicated a long, loving message to him, writing, “This is a really challenging time for our family and we are so appreciative of your continued love, compassion, and support. We are moving through this as a strong family unit.”
What is the most significant sacrifice you’ve made as a parent or that either of your parents made for you?