If you weren’t lucky enough to be born rich, then, just like the rest of us mortals, you need to work. So you may find yourself in 2 situations: you land an excellent job, where people are respected and valued, or you get one with a toxic environment. Either way, the important thing is to recognize the difference between a good job and a bad one, so you can understand the red flags in the workplace and start looking for other options. In the end, no one deserves to be tied to certain types of bosses.
Interviews with candidates are an important part of the recruitment process, as they help the employer determine if the person can meet the job requirements. But it should be a 2-way street, and applicants should also take this time to assess if the company is a good fit for them and whether or not they see themselves thriving and growing in that particular work environment.
On the one hand, looking for a job has become much easier thanks to modern technologies. We no longer need to buy newspapers with job postings and check vacancy announcements on boards. At the same time, the internet opened new opportunities for tricky employers, job hunting companies, and fraudsters.
Most of us can agree that we have that one friend that is always getting on our nerves, or that we know someone who is toxic and brings stress and pressure into our lives, and yet we befriend them for some reason. However, when confronted with an uncomfortable scenario, red flags are those who exhibit a pattern that may be easily recognized and identified by others.
Toxic relationships don’t have to start with anger or physical abuse. Sometimes it all starts with one partner controlling the other, and this control is often skillfully disguised as love, care, and affection. However, there are some red flags that can signal that you’ve gotten stuck in a controlling relationship, and it’s important to notice them in time.
There are many signs that can indicate a person has issues with self-esteem. Many of them have already been discussed by psychologists and are still being examined carefully. However, those not connected with science also have their own understanding of self-esteem and the signs that show a person should reconsider the way they behave.
Relationships are not always an easy ride. When reality hits, you have to find a way to communicate your wishes and grievances to your partner. It can be hard to spot a bad sign right away, and sometimes it requires professional help. Reddit users asked couples therapists on the platform to share the most common red flags they’ve encountered in their practice and whether or not the situation can be fixed. Many family experts engaged in this conversation on the sensitive topic.
Mothers are understandably very protective of their newborn babies, but at the same time too vulnerable to maintain personal boundaries and question their own adequacy when they do, especially with the immediate family members. A user on Reddit shared her concerns about a SIL and the way their relationship rapidly changed during her pregnancy, to the point where she didn’t let her see her baby. Read the full story in our article.
«After 5 years in my relationship with my girlfriend, I proposed. She was super excited and wanted to start planning right away.» The loving couple appeared destined for a blissful future, yet the woman’s true personality emerged, leaving the man bewildered and prompting him to seek assistance from internet users.
A woman, 29, has taken to Reddit and told the users about her totally difficult family situation. She’s a lucky person to have found an amazing nanny for her kids, who has a nice personality, too. But her husband’s behavior made the nanny quit, and now the woman’s family life is also slowly turning into one big mess, with a lot of red flags popping up here and there.
When spouses have close friends of opposite gender, to many people it may become a problem. There’s a belief that there’s no such thing as a real friendship of a man and a woman, and it will sooner or later turn into a romance. Our today’s heroine was afraid of the same thing, and she wrote us a letter about her husband’s very weird relationship with his female friend. She recently sent us a letter with her story update, too, and let’s see if this friendship brought anything good or bad to their family.
Danger might await you anywhere. Scammers are getting more sophisticated in their attempts to get closer to you and use their skills to scam you. They use strange things like envelopes in the car and other weird stuff on the hood to target everyone, regardless of their age and background. Let’s see how you can recognize the red flags and know what to do.
People who know what it’s like to work for a bad employer decided to share their stories online so that other people could learn from their experience. And we divided these stories into several categories, or so-called red flags, that signify a job isn’t right for you.
The first day at a new job can be exciting, but that can quickly change when you realize the job is not at all what you expected. In those moments, it’s best to run away before it’s too late, and people online know this all too well. So they decided to share the red flags that led them to submit their resignation in record time.
When looking for a job, we may get carried away by the excitement, the challenge of doing something new, or a promising salary. However, there are certain “red flags” that warn us that not everything is as nice as it may seem. These internet users have shared anecdotes of job interviews where they realized it was better to run away as soon as possible.
We all like to relax in the evening and watch some good movies. But oftentimes, we end up getting disappointed if it turns out that the movie is not worth the time spent on it. The good thing is that some people can predict the mediocrity of a flick.
Relationships are an important part of our lives, but some of them, unfortunately, do not go so well. When you feel like your partner is being abusive, and you wonder how to get out of an abusive relationship, we encourage you to trust your instinct and leave them. Since it is hard to figure out if your relationship is actually toxic, we want to give you some tips to get out of an abusive relationship.
The risk of buying a thing that won’t fit you is especially high when making purchases online: the masterful skills of sellers, models, and photographers make even the most lackluster thing look high-quality. We don’t realize our mistake until we try the item on and oftentimes this happens when we buy things that can’t be returned.
Money doesn’t grow on trees, so it’s important to protect ourselves from skilled predators who might try to con us into giving them our hard-earned money. These fraudsters know every trick in the book when it comes to manipulating us. But we can beat them at their own game by recognizing the danger signs.
If you’re in what seems like a serious and dedicated relationship and finally decide to say, “I love you,” only to have the other person’s response range anywhere from “thank you” to complete silence, your world will feel like it’s crumbling down. And now you start to wonder whether the other person is being as honest and open with you as you thought they were. But their inability to open up to you about their feelings should certainly make you think about things.
“Breadcrumbing” is a type of dating behavior where your partner flirts with you by sending messages on social media or through texts (“breadcrumbs”), keeping you interested in them, usually with no further intention of having a serious relationship with you. People who choose this pattern of behavior are giving their partners false hope, romantically leading them on and making them dependent on their communication. Such relationships usually lead to nowhere and leave us frustrated.
The concept of marriage has gone through numerous changes. People get married later and less frequently, and they get divorced more often. Moreover, single parents who raise their kids alone are no longer considered a sore thumb. The reasons for divorces are different, whether it be due to general conflict, adultery, not bearing responsibility, etc. And at the same time, people tend to blame themselves more than their partners when the relationship gets ruined.
Some people just need to take one look at a poster for an upcoming film to understand that it’s going to be mediocre and that they don’t need to rush to the movie theater. But others don’t realize this until it’s too late. And even fewer people can actually say what exactly went wrong and why a film didn’t satisfy them.
According to statistics, 85% of people are not happy with their jobs. There are different reasons: low salary, unbearable bosses, toxic colleagues, and no personal and professional growth. And the saddest thing of all is that when we’re looking for a job, we want it so much that our minds are clouded and they miss the most important and alarming signs during job interviews.
Apologizing can be hard. For some people saying “I’m sorry” can be just as unbearable as a splitting headache. But even those of us who manage to pluck up their courage and apologize can do it insincerely. It turns out, fake apologies are so common that we have plenty of terms to call them: a non-apology apology, nonpology, backhanded apology, or even fauxpology.
No matter how many job interviews you’ve had in your life, chances are recruiters can still surprise you. From tricky questions to awkward behavior, there are many ways they can bewilder you and make you lose your confidence. Luckily, experienced interviewees have many tips on how to rock any interview, and they’re glad to share them with the rest of the world.
They say that “love is blind” and they are probably right. We tend to ignore many things about our loved ones, even though these things scream that you need to get out of the relationship. As a consequence, we’re left trying to put a broken heart back together or we just get up one day realizing that we’ve wasted years in a pointless relationship.
Everyone wants their relationship to work, but sometimes we need to take drastic measures, say we’ve had enough, and move on. But to know which signs are red flags can be difficult. After all, we do not want to simply give up when there could be a good thing going. Still, in some cases it’s better to close the book.
Divorce lawyers and family psychologists are the best people to help you recognize the red flags of coupledom. Due to their experience, they can immediately detect which personality features will cause minor upsets, and which ones will become a huge problem in future and may lead to break-ups. So, they’re really good advisors when it comes to first dates.
