A Random Guy Tried to Deceive Me, but I Was Way Too Smart for That

Stepping into the role of a stepmom comes with a lot of challenges. I really hoped my wife would start connecting with my children, so I let her watch them for just a day. But things didn’t go at all like I imagined, and the outcome completely caught me off guard.
I have two kids from my first marriage, a boy and a girl. They’re good kids, but they’ve always been a little sensitive when it comes to food. Their mom is a great cook, and honestly, I think they’re still adjusting to the changes since the remarriage.
Last weekend, I had a work emergency and asked my wife to watch the kids for the day. She agreed, though she didn’t sound thrilled.
When I got home that evening, my son cried, “We only had cookies and juice. We’re hungry.” My daughter nodded behind him, rubbing her stomach. I went straight to my wife in the kitchen and asked, “Why didn’t they eat?”
She leaned against the counter and said with a smirk, “I’m not going to beg them to eat. I gave them snacks.” I told her that wasn’t enough.
She fired back, “Well, their mom should’ve packed food. I made pasta. They turned up their noses and said they wanted their mom’s cooking. So I gave them snacks and moved on.”
It turned into a full-blown argument. She stormed into the bedroom and didn’t come out for the rest of the night. I believe she was trying. But instead of being honest with me, she chose silence, and my kids went hungry.
Later, I asked the kids what happened. My son admitted they said, “This doesn’t taste like Mom’s,” and pushed the plate away. I don’t want my wife to feel unappreciated, but they’re children. They still need proper food, even when they’re picky.
Was I too harsh? Or is she being unfair?
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