Ah the usual "she had sex a squirted out a goblin so she's now disabled and extremely special."
Also, your parents do not like you. Learn from this and stop trying to please them at all.
My Family Demands I Give Up My First Home — Because My Sister Is Pregnant

The letter.

Hey Bright Side,
My sister has always been the golden child, the family princess. Growing up, she never had to lift a finger; our parents always excused her, while I was left to fend for myself as a teenager. I’ve been working since I was 15, skipping vacations, cutting corners, and saving every penny so I could one day buy my own home.
Now, after years of sacrifice, I was finally close to making it happen. But just last week, my parents called me and pushed me to give all that money to my sister instead. Her boyfriend left her while she was pregnant, and they said she “needs it more than me.” I do feel for her, but this is my dream, my savings, and my hard work.
When I refused, my parents turned on me. They called me selfish, accused me of abandoning her, and said I was breaking the family apart. The very next day, I found out my sister had told the whole family I had flat-out refused to help, conveniently leaving out everything I had already done for her over the years. Now, most of the family sees me as cold-hearted, when all I wanted was the home I’ve been working toward my whole life.
— Sarah
Here’s what we advise.

Oh heck no. Sister chose to have sex, got pregnant, boyfriend left her. Sad but has nothing to do with you. Buy your house and enjoy your hard work. Let your parents provide housing etc for your sister if they so choose. Not your circus, not your monkey.
Sarah, thank you for trusting us with your story. First of all, please know that your years of hard work and sacrifice deserve respect, not guilt trips. Wanting to buy your own home is not selfish; it’s the natural result of all the effort you’ve put in since you were a teenager. You are not responsible for fixing the consequences of your sister’s choices, even if her situation is difficult.
That being said, family pressure can weigh heavily, especially when emotions and loyalty are involved. A clear, calm conversation with your parents and sister might help, where you remind them of all the support you’ve already given and explain that giving away your savings would put your own future at risk. What do you think?
Comments
ha, was your parents always brainless creatures or something happened to them? you do what is best for you and fallow your dream and have the fruit of your hard work for your self, and tell themnthat as a parents they should help your sister, you do not have the obligation to do so but they actually do, she is not your responsibility, enjiy your life and let them be,
Your sister very selfish, don't give her your money. And also don't help her take care her baby , she will treat u as free baby sitter. If she can't take care her own child maybe she can give up the baby for adoption.
Buy your house far far away from your family. Move to other states maybe better
No way on earth you are leaving that house
Buy your home and keep your business to yourself. Best response to anyone: "Nunya. " As in, "None of your business. " Block calls, texts, social media and tell no one and I mean no one why, where or what. Your safety and mental health depend on it. I learned the hard way.
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