Ellie’s world was shattered only days before her wedding when the man she believed was her soulmate broke her heart, causing her to question their entire future together. Ellie shared her heartbreaking story with us, seeking advice on how to navigate this difficult situation.
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We appreciate you sharing your experience with us, Ellie! Here are some pointers to assist you in overcoming this difficult circumstance.
Think about getting help from a couples therapist to deal with the problems you’re having about chores. A therapist can help you and Carl talk things out and understand each other better in a safe place.
In therapy, you can learn to communicate better, find a middle ground, and understand what each of you needs. It might also help you figure out any bigger problems in your relationship.
Think about who does what around the house and see if you can share tasks more fairly. Instead of sticking to old-fashioned ideas about who does what, try to find a fair balance that works for both of you.
You could make a plan together for who does what chores, or think about other ways to make things easier like getting someone to help out or using gadgets that save time.
Talk openly with Carl about how much his words hurt you when you overheard them. Tell him exactly how it made you feel and how it made you doubt your relationship. Ask him calmly to explain how he feels about household chores.
Spend time thinking about how you feel about your relationship with Carl. Think about if his actions and how he treats you match what you want in a partner.
Consider if you feel happy, respected, and valued in the relationship. Trust yourself and take care of your feelings as you think about this tough situation. If you often feel unhappy or like your needs aren’t met, it might be time to consider whether you want to stay in the relationship or if there’s a better option.
Another woman considered canceling her wedding due to her mother-in-law’s behavior. She had bought her wedding dress weeks ago, but upon returning home early one day, a terrible incident occurred.
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However, your boyfriend's behaviour was really bad.
Is America heaving with therapists? Every single problem page suggests visiting one. If they're not on commission, they should be looking for a deal.
In the UK you'd be lucky to find someone within the next year.
That aside, whilst I'm sure therapists can be useful in some circumstances, this is not one of those times. He is, categorically, not going to change. Leave now and be glad you weren't actually married.
