15 Situations That Took Turns We Never Saw Coming

The bond between grandparents and grandkids is truly special. So it is understandable why parents to adult kids are very enthusiastic about welcoming future grandkids into the family. But trying to convince a young couple to have children when they aren’t ready yet is never a good idea. One netizen had to face his in-laws’ anger when he finally snapped after being constantly bothered about starting a family.
Basically, my in-laws want their only child, my wife Diana, to start giving them grandchildren. Diana is 28 and just finishing her PhD. Then she wants to get established in a career before we start a family. My in-laws know how much money I make, and they know we could live comfortably off my earnings. That isn’t what Diana wants.
She has worked hard to get where she is, and she wants to reap the rewards of her hard work. She also says that once she is working then I can cut back on my hours, I’m a welder, and relax a little. I have been working since I was 15, so literally half my life. I make a very good living in return for a lot of fairly hard work.
Over Christmas, the in-laws just wouldn’t drop it. I finally snapped. I said that if they wanted grandchildren, then they could reimburse us for her education. They could further pay her the salary she would be giving up. When she returned to work, they could pay her the difference between what she could be earning and her entry level position. They could pay for a nanny, so my wife could work.
Or they could back off and wait for us to be ready.
They said that they couldn’t afford all that. I asked them how they expected us to afford it. I said that if it was really what they wanted, they could just give her the inheritance that would be coming her way now instead of later. They got all offended and said that is not hers until they don’t need it any more.
Diana asked me to drop it. She has tried dozens of times to explain to her parents why we are waiting. They just ignore her. They ignore what we want for our lives. They have been very cold since Christmas. They seem to think I was rude for pointing out the costs of what they are asking for. A lot of her family agree with them that I went too far in asking them to pay if they want a grandchild now instead of later.
Having problems and disagreements with in-laws is a common occurrence. Recently, we wrote about a mother-in-law who tried to join her son’s honeymoon, but her new DIL wasn’t very happy about the idea.