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I Refuse to Let My Parents Meet My Kid After They Humiliated My Wife

When our reader’s parents rejected his wife, he made a painful decision to cut them out of their life. Now, they want to meet their kid, and he’s left questioning if it’s too little, too late.
Hello, Bright Side,
I’m 35, and my wife is 37. We’ve been together for a few years now. But the situation with my parents is a mess.
My wife, Emily, is really amazing. I adore her. But my parents were always focused on one thing—that her sister has Down syndrome. They were terrified that if Emily and I had kids, they’d have a risk of being born with it. No matter how much we explained that Down syndrome isn’t inherited, and the risk was no higher than in any other family, they just argued.
So, they refused to accept her into the family and said that if I married her, they’d cut us off. I told them that if that was the case, then they weren’t welcome in our lives anymore. When Emily learnt about this, she cried, and I hated my parents even more for that.
Now we have a baby girl. She is perfectly healthy. Recently, my sister visited us and said that my parents demanded to meet her. I answered that they rejected my wife and threatened to cut us off, so that wasn’t possible.
I didn’t tell anything to Emily, but my sister believes it could be an opportunity for closure. Am I being wrong by not letting them meet my kid?
Josh
Hi, Josh,
Remember: You don’t have to rush into reconciliation just because your parents want you to. Your priority should be what’s best for your wife and daughter, not appeasing anyone else. Consider our ideas before making the decision.
Closure doesn’t necessarily mean reconciliation.
If you feel like you can’t forgive them for how they treated Emily and you, that’s valid. Closure could be something smaller, like an acknowledgment of their wrongdoings without giving them access to your child. You can always communicate that your decision isn’t about refusing to forgive, but about protecting your family.
Your wife’s feelings should play a significant role in this decision.
Sit down with her, explain the situation with your parents, and hear out her thoughts. She may feel differently about the possibility of them meeting your daughter, and could have her own perspective on whether this is a healthy step forward.


Love should be unconditional not based on how "healthy" a child is. People like that don't deserve to be parents or grandparents. Stick to your guns and teach your child that real love is unconditional. Especially towards children who are different like having Downs Syndrome.
Consider setting up a family event where you can assess their behavior and attitudes in a controlled environment.
It could be something casual—perhaps a lunch or a small gathering without your child at first. You could meet together with your wife’s family and see how your parents interact with her sister. This allows you to see if they’re genuinely remorseful and understanding.
Remember, you’re in a position where the well-being of your wife and daughter comes first, and you should feel no pressure to let anyone back in until you all are ready for it.
Good luck,
Bright Side
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